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« on: August 30, 2018, 05:44:06 pm »

Curious to pick your brains! If Harry divorced Murky, do you think his reputation can be saved, or is the damage beyond repair?
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« Reply #1 on: August 30, 2018, 06:32:37 pm »

Yes, only if this turns out to be an operation that's modernizing and rehabing the image of the royal family. The common theme was that the royak family, being privaleged and white, are out of touch with the growing brown and black population of the UK and something drastic needed to happen to change that view. Enter fall-girl Meghan to fill that role. Meghan's murky background of being a rumoured escort and Soho House girl needed to be controlled and silenced as she most likely had pliticians as her client and Harry had her as a booty call, would've caused problems with Brexit if a sex scandal blew up because she'd blab to the press if she didn't get her way with Harry; seen as his girlfriend. That's why the statement was issued and she's were she is now. I say this because since day one, everything's been off and nothing done in the royal fashion, especially bigging her up as the star that'll change the royal family and that celebrity driven wedding. Now she can't play the race card and can only praise the royal family for how she's been treated by them and she can't sue any of them when she's booted out of the family. They have her on film in the documentry about the queenmost likely saying nice things about her and her role in the commonwealth. They now 'own and control' her when she inevitably gets the boot so she wont be able to talk about her time with them as she has to have signed an NDA and wont be able to sue them either. The marriage isn't legal, well, shouldn't be, if Harry's to get back to being himself prior to Meghan where he was doing very well with his charatable work.
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« Reply #2 on: August 30, 2018, 06:39:44 pm »

You know, a reputation is the result of either actions or rumors; throughout his publicized life Harry clearly showed that he prefers to party and would prefer to drift through life with a few token appearances at events organized by other people and looking like a slob. He could have easily lived a more orderly life, but it is clear that he prefers chaos and instability.

If he ended up divorcing Meg, it would in fact put him in a position of being free from marriage, but he would end up in the same messes he prefers to make of his life. The press will of course make excuses for him, but the press do not pay his bills and the press isn't going to be able to decide whether or not someone decent wants to take up with him. The press isn't as powerful as it used to be and press pressure can only get to a person if the approval of a tabloid columnist is in fact important.

Harry isn't just being seen as Diana's Son, but as a man who has not shown he is interested in a quiet, stable, straightforward life. He's unformed and grossly uneducated, not even interested in opening a book to pass his time constructively. He is still very childlike and infantile and it would take a VERY mature and sophisticated woman to get him to behave well at a table, much less be a good man who would make a good husband and father/good influence on vulnerable children.

Any woman who has worked hard to get a good life for herself isn't going to take it for granted and isn't going to want to have Harry crashing up her life like a bull in a glass shop and think it funny while he makes a mess and then be willing to clean that mess up while he goes off to have more fun.

He has spent all that goodwill and this isn't the 80's or 90's when people looked at the idiocies of the RF with amusement. Times are too tough and right now at this point in time he is clearly frustrating his people with his refusal to toughen up and grow up. His female contemporaries are all settled in stable lives of their own and it is clear that none of the aristocrats want anything to do with him and since hanging around him while he was dating Meg would have caused a huge drama, is it any wonder that he never attracted anyone solid?

I just believe that no, he can't be saved and neither can his rep.
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« Reply #3 on: August 30, 2018, 07:01:33 pm »

They have only been wed for a few months. A quick divorce would make harry look even worse. Some may not blame the wife but blame him some may blame them both. If they have small children if they divorce both their reputations would suffer a huge hit. He could drift for years dating women to find a second wife ala Prince Andrew who never succeeded in doing so. Or end up like Prince albert of Monaco finally settling down (or potentially Harry would have children with the first wife). Or he could be a de Caprio figure with his women getting younger and younger over the years.

None of t hem are Einsteins. The University educated one was said to have gotten a lot of help to get through art history then geography as a major.

He can be saved if he and his wife seriously work on the marriage and take up worthwhile duties and charities and be consistent. And work on a stable family life. Not give up on the marriage but get counseling if needed.

The last thing the family needs is another divorce. IMO.
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« Reply #4 on: August 30, 2018, 07:02:45 pm »

After all that money spent and documentaries, a divorce would just go down bad with everyone; even the columnists would have to be heavily bribed to put a positive spin on it.
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« Reply #5 on: August 30, 2018, 08:51:00 pm »

^those kinda of documentaries were done for Charles and Diana, so they’re just par for the course. This woman’s baggage has been aired all over the media and social media that I still see her as a patsy used to play the race card in reverse. The royal family will be part of the commonwealth and don’t need to be seen as racists and that’s what Meghan accused them and the UK media and public of being with her statement in the beginning of this mess. The royal family had to control the narrative since then. Her being fast tracked and having a wedding so unroyal complete with celebrity guest that the couple never met or barely knows is a red flag that this isn’t about Harry alone. There’s dumb talk about it being multi cultural and progressive which was laughable and wrong. It was more like a social experiment to get people talking about race relations. Her visa issues will be the factor in her not being legally married, IMO.
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« Reply #6 on: August 30, 2018, 09:24:08 pm »

Curious to pick your brains! If Harry divorced Murky, do you think his reputation can be saved, or is the damage beyond repair?
i think she'll eventually divorce him... she's way smarter than him...
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« Reply #7 on: August 30, 2018, 09:25:48 pm »

No she won't; this is her security for life and she is living up to this role to the hilt. She will never walk away and he having no brain is just fine for her since after all, she relied on his stupidity to convince him to marry her.

He's lost all credibility.

No woman will want to clean up his mess and save him and I am certain that in a lot of ways, his life is over.
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« Reply #8 on: August 30, 2018, 09:32:22 pm »

i think it will take a few years... but i can to see meghan leaving harry for some ultra-rich guy...
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« Reply #9 on: August 30, 2018, 09:37:07 pm »

If she leaves him, she loses the title and I am certain that she won't want that. As a lover, she might have an affair with a rich man who will give her things she wants, but of the rest, I am not sure. I do not believe that Meg would leave him; affairs, yes, but not a divorce. She's in good and has a title, which can be priceless.
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« Reply #10 on: August 30, 2018, 09:40:46 pm »

She’s being called out a cheap hustler by this chap. Same thing Wendy Williams said. Will they be called racist for telling the truth.
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I’ve to agree that Harry’s a ruined man seeing him continue to be undermined by her. She’s in charge and she’s the star attraction as she pushes past him and constantly interrupts when he’s speaking to other people. Harry’s never allowed himself to be in that position before so why now with her? He’s never come off as completely dumb; stupid at times yes, but blindly dumb, no. Let her hang herself and ruin herself is what I see here. She’s nothing without Harry and Harry looks like nothing now and is being called all sorts of names as he’s appearing weak and emasculated with her.
What remains odd and needs looking into is why she’s allowed to spend/merch on expensive clothes and Charles is supposedly paying for it and the others in the royal family are expected to economize.
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« Reply #11 on: August 31, 2018, 12:05:02 am »

His rep will depend on how she acts post-divorce. If Fergie and Andrew are any indications, he'll forever be tainted.
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« Reply #12 on: August 31, 2018, 12:13:31 am »

There may not be a divorce if the two play their cards right. IMO. Or the divorce could be a civil one ala Fergie and Andrew. I always think it in the best interest of a couple to work on the marriage and not treat it lightly. I think the worst option would be divorce. They just got married I would like to think they can have a lasting marriage.

Meghan might not be the one to have affairs if it comes to that. Just saying.
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« Reply #13 on: August 31, 2018, 12:36:04 am »

^^^Godfrey is hilarious!  lmao

I figured it out: if white people criticize Meg, they are racists, but if black people criticize Meg, they are haters and jealous of her new found rich life  dontknow

It's best to listen to how black people criticize her because it has nothing to do with her skin color; we can tell that she is faking her love for him in order to be financially secure and be a fame *sleazy* (i.e. Vanity Fair cover and article).

Harry's reputation is done and can never recover even if he divorced her. As much as I would like to be snarky, I do feel that he is besotted with her or else he wouldn't have married her, but it may be one-sided.

He is so happy to have a black woman and so he is just fine with the way she dresses and how she breaks royal protocol, after all he is a feminist, no, so she can do as she pleases?  tehe
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« Reply #14 on: August 31, 2018, 01:06:23 am »

Thing is, that anyone who takes up with him after a divorce will have a TON of work ahead of her; she'll have to be able to get Harry straightened out and focused on actual substantial work, then of course work twice as hard as Meg at charity, then dress twice as dowdy to compensate for Meg's indecent dressing, and then put up with the BS that Kate and Co. dish out all the time. PLUS trying to win the trust of the public and put up with comparisons in the press. That is asking for too much out of every single women on this planet. It would in fact make things impossible and no woman should have to put this mess of a man back together since Harry would inevitably fall part and his new wife will spend her LIFE building him back up again.

Harry is a self destructive child who thinks that disrupting the routines and lives of people as a game. It's all just one big joke to him.
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« Reply #15 on: August 31, 2018, 01:12:30 am »

He may well marry an airhead should the divorce take place and he goes the Di Caprio route dating models who get younger and younger. Harry has to get himself straightened out. He married Meghan and should not act like a movie star who has 5 marriages and one divorce after another. The two just got married and are old enough to try to work on the marriage. Harry would not marry anybody "dowdy" if he marries again. He would get perhaps one of Di Caprio's exes. IT will all go downhill if he divorces. He wanted to marry and have a family the time is now for him to act like a grownup. Prince Andrew dated much younger women but never remarried. Chances are Harry would go the Andrew route.
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« Reply #16 on: August 31, 2018, 01:31:49 am »

better divorced than living separate lives (read:cheating each other)... even if there are children involved... if they divorce i dont think he'll remarry... maybe he go back to chelsy easter-lol... with no need for a public life maybe she'll be happy with him LOL but i think they'll continue being a dysfunctional couple LOL
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« Reply #17 on: August 31, 2018, 01:33:58 am »

Chelsy turned him down when he was single. I doubt she'd want him after a divorce.

I am talking about a marriage not two of them cheating. If they are mature enough and not superficial beings they will work on having a marriage where they fully commit to each other.
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« Reply #18 on: August 31, 2018, 01:58:43 am »

The real question should be can the queen and Charles reputations be saved because quite a few protocol was broken to allow this marriage, so for their sakes, this has to be an operation and not a legitimate marriage. The public expexts the royals to have boundaries an traditiona and not this insta royal and celebrity crap that Meghan's brought and that Harry's reduced to. Modernization and moving with the times shouldn't mean joining the vapid celebrity crowd who sell their soul and say things to fit the image that their pr firlm laid out for them but basically do nothing.
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« Reply #19 on: August 31, 2018, 02:12:07 am »

I wonder how different things would be if Harry had been forced to do desk work and forced to earn his Admiral status. Or perhaps if he had been forced to go and stay in uni and basically graduate with some kind of actual knowledge and refinement rather than being allowed to go to clubs every night and shirk his own growth. There is no saving him if he does not want to save himself and any woman would be wasting her time trying to save him from his determination to ruin himself. Harry is clearly unwilling to even do charity work for the Prince's Trust and pass his time looking after the soldiers he served with.

He's made it clear that all his charity work is more for PR than from the heart and that is how it has always been.
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