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Title: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: AnaBolena on May 06, 2015, 04:42:08 pm
Ok girls, I must admit that although I like Harry's work ethic when he works and like the way he interacts with people, I can't seem to see the 'wow' factor in him.

What is it - if you see Harry as romantic - that is so irresistible to you about him?

I'm not joking, I'm dead serious.  I don't 'get it'.  :dontknow: :dontknow: :dontknow:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: YooperModerator on May 06, 2015, 04:49:15 pm
^I think Harry is one of those people that if you follow him you get an impression and it sticks so he may not be that appealing to some.  It's either mad attraction or a kind of disinterest.  Very little middle ground.  I, personally, love the openness, playful, caring aspects of Harry.  Do I think he's the most handsome guy around?  No.  Not my type even if I was in the same age group.  But, he's the kind of person I can see enjoying talking with.  But I sense a dark side to him that would keep me at a distance.  My .02.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: AnaBolena on May 06, 2015, 05:29:01 pm
^ Yes Yooper, I could relate to him the same way you do, but if I was a younger woman, I couldn't see him as romantic material, or remotely attractive for me - but each to their own.

Many might think my question silly, but if one really doesn't get it, it's a curiosity.  I'm baffled.  ???


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Jane23 on May 06, 2015, 05:29:17 pm
Physically speaking he is no Brad Pitt but he is very mainly and let us not kid our selfs girls love a "bad boy'" ... I think that is the attraction but "the real Harry" seems to be too much to handle and just like his mother he has a public persona and a private one that is less appealing that is why he is single ...


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: AnaBolena on May 06, 2015, 05:39:34 pm
 ^ Thanks Jane.  See, I don't see him as manly, and I'm not a Brad Pitt type woman (think more Clooney).

But yes, I do sense a dual personality as I do with Willy as well.  It might be more the persona than the looks because looks never were my defining point.

Having said that, I do like the public Harry.  I do not like the public Willy.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: simplyme on May 06, 2015, 05:48:56 pm
He is a prince but seems down to earth, like other guys


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: AnaBolena on May 06, 2015, 05:50:17 pm
^ But to me - he's sort of ummm, cheap?  Not sure how to word that for a male.  :tehe:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Akasha 85 on May 06, 2015, 06:03:39 pm
He has a certain ruffines and a high cuddlefactor imo. :tehe:
And I still remember how lost and sad he looked at Di's funeral, William was a bit more stoic and closed but Harry had that raw emotion on his face remember that envelop on the coffin?  :sob:
I've had a softspot for the guy ever since. (Motherinstinct? :dontknow: )
Altough I do wanna box his ears from time to time (vegas, a certain costum!  bignono)
He just has a certain puppylook when he appologieses for his screw-ups (someting wills has never done btw) that makes me go aww every time  :sigh:
I don't know, it's not physical really but more the fact that he knows how to pull my heartstrings
 yeah I give him more slack then will and waity  because he seems open and realer than w&k.
Besides william is apperantly just as bad but his stuff get brushed under the carpet wich goes agains my sense of fairness,  so Im more likely to defend Harry.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: camilapitanga on May 06, 2015, 06:12:33 pm
I agree with all opinions i believe Harry is probablly a mix of it all..the good and the bad... :tehe:
To me hes real and thats why i like him.At least what he shows coz i dont know how he trully is anyway.But to me hes like any other guy but with a prince title.And thats what makes him diferent.To me if he didnt had a title i would never talk about him coz i wouldnt know him but i would feel atracted to him as i would with any other guy like him.Normal i guess.
What i lke about him is that he is a prince but he dont look like one at all.But in the end when we put all toguether to me at least hes like the perfect prince.Hes far from being perfect obviouslly but his flaws is what makes him atractive  :sigh:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Kuei Fei on May 06, 2015, 06:38:34 pm
^I think Harry is one of those people that if you follow him you get an impression and it sticks so he may not be that appealing to some.  It's either mad attraction or a kind of disinterest.  Very little middle ground.  I, personally, love the openness, playful, caring aspects of Harry.  Do I think he's the most handsome guy around?  No.  Not my type even if I was in the same age group.  But, he's the kind of person I can see enjoying talking with.  But I sense a dark side to him that would keep me at a distance.  My .02.

Thing is, he strikes me as someone who is elitist; look at his dating pattern and he's someone who prefers connected and wealthy, wealthy being the minimum. I don't think he would want someone normal and he strikes me as someone with a foul temper. Everyone thought Henry VIII was a good, genial king, but look at how he turned out. Henry does not strike me as a husband who will end up being a nice guy to his wife, more along the lines of an autocrat.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Jane23 on May 06, 2015, 06:40:26 pm
How Harry is considered "down to earth" I will never know the guy is a great actor they all say that about him ... he dates his cousins , hangs around people like Brandson and Titled people,  his real friends are the posh crowd he grew up with and lives in a Palace ... he is sure a great actor just like his mother but down to earth he isn't ...


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: camilapitanga on May 06, 2015, 07:26:14 pm
I understand down to earth as humble.Someone who even being part of some circle is not enclosured to it.Like im a rich heir but i can walk around the wolrd rich places poor places i have friends of all kindas,races, places, whathever...I see Harry like this.
I dont hink hes a great better amazing example of smeone whos down to earth but judging his position and how people on such position are normally i find him to  be very normal and yeah why not down to earth.

Just coz he clearlly enjoys the fact hes rich and doing all rich people does eventually dont mean he dont enjoy doing normal things :sigh:
I see Harry as  a mix of both.Everyone loves having a confortable life i dont see him as the kinda who would get rid of all become a hippie or spend his days surfing in some paradisiac place.I think he really enjoys his oposition and whathever good it brings him when its convenient but i see a genuine desire of helping less fortunate people anf for this getting envolved with theyre lifes experiement it to learn more about the wolrd the people.As well as some very normal trades about his personality.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Ariel on May 06, 2015, 07:33:50 pm
yet the question is why he is liked, not what are the many reasons to not be liked. my 2 cents are that i can relate to him. there is lots of gossip about him, and many throw in accusations that may end up unfounded, the guy has a temper, probably an issue reigning it in, has had a situation when growing up where he was helpless, and in no position to  change things, a victim in the true sense of the world, i had to lead battles with life in order to make it - he went to the army to lead battles, children seem to be very important for him, having my own kids is the most important thing to me, besides being able to provide for them. he also seems to not allow to be used too much. and he seems to like to help people. i don't have the means to be charitable but whenever i can use my connections to help others i do it. so, i am a fan of his not because of him, cause I don't know the guy, but because of how relatable he is to my own life story.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: YooperModerator on May 06, 2015, 07:50:30 pm
I never meant to imply by "dark side" to Harry as being cruel to others at ALL. I see no evidence of that in Harry.  He's too warm hearted.  What I meant was I think he struggles with a lot of demons which explains, to me, his binge and heavy inappropriate drinking/partying and drive to have fun at all costs.  I'm not saying he does this all the time or that he's not a great guy, which he is, but I do think he buries a lot of things down and it comes out when he over indulges.  It's not the greatest sign of mental and emotional health in my book and I'd love to know him and support his causes but that's as far as it would go with me.  I've known people with sides like that and they have a self-destructive streak that they hide very well but it's a problem and I've had enough problems.  That's all.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Stephanie on May 06, 2015, 08:38:51 pm
http://i.perezhilton.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/prince-harry-naked-pics-in-trouble-army__oPt.jpg :thumbsup:
Harry is much better looking then Wimpo these days.
Harry is way more masculine while Wimpo transformed unto Uncle Gary,s chihuahua.
A bald, lazy effeminate leash dog.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Kuei Fei on May 06, 2015, 09:01:26 pm
I think Harry is stifling to grow from the party boy role, but refuses to take the steps to change his life and reputation.

He's way too old to be this irresponsible. He has time, money, connections to do anything and he's still making a lot of the wrong decisions.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Adeline on May 06, 2015, 09:56:30 pm
What makes Harry attractive to me is his charisma and personality. Like others have stated, he's not really handsome, but his personality makes up for it. Watching videos or pictures, your eyes are immediately drawn to him. Diana was the same way, she had a personality that drew people in and that in itself is a gift. Given the choice between looks and personality, I would choose personality, because looks fade (see William) but personality lasts a lifetime.  :thumbsup:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Stephanie on May 06, 2015, 10:00:09 pm
So true.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: cate1949 on May 06, 2015, 10:57:37 pm
the red hair and how he wears it - imagine him with say brown hair - not so attractive.  He is a single rich prince.  He does seem great in public - fun relaxed.  So I'd say that is why he is popular.

I'd say Jane is right - in private what is he really like?  Suspect he is a handful.  Maybe that is part of the attraction - mystery.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Sheridan_is_appalled on May 06, 2015, 11:52:27 pm
One thing I have noticed about Harry is that he owns up to his mistakes.  He definitely has Diana's touch when it comes to dealing with the Great Unwashed.  No airs or graces like the ones his family (and extended family) puts on.  He makes himself approachable and likeable, and that is what sets him apart from the others.
What he is like in private is anyone's guess, but I am willing to bet that he's about the same as his public persona.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Jane23 on May 07, 2015, 09:14:35 am
It might be because he was born September 15th and I was born October 1st but I do find him attractive he is not "pretty" but that is what makes him attractive he is very mainly if you ask me ... now ... it's his drinking problem and how he is behind close doors that is the issue with him whenever he gets dumped the girl in question latter looks like she escaped prison ...


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: AnaBolena on May 07, 2015, 04:54:44 pm
 My goodness, lots of you girls think Harry is hot except me lol  :shy:

I must admit though, red hair on a male is always a turnoff for me.  I don't know why it just is.

Yooper, I never thought you meant dark as in cruel! 

I've never seen Harry lie barefaced like his parents could, but he is certainly likeable.  I'd chat with him too - but that is it even if I were a BBB :tehe:

Jane, I'm Sept 19th so I'm not sure if DOB makes a difference.

Wimpo is 100% down for me :thumbsdown: Ugh!

I don't like 'pretty men' either - so it's not that. 

I think I like Harry's public persona but am ever aware to beware of that.  Look back in history at some of the most magnetic people of their time - Hitler was one of them.  People adored the way he could speak with others.  I had the fortune to meet a very elderly German lady who told me he could magnetise anyone.  So in saying that, and given what we know - how do we really know when altruism is genuine or when it is for the 'give me attention' feature.

I know I've gone OT, but because I like Harry I question why because I don't respect his lack of values and am much with KF in many ways.
It's interesting to really look at what makes someone so seductive (not meaning romantic) and is it always a sign of a good nature.  :dontknow:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Jane23 on May 07, 2015, 05:21:06 pm
^ Of 1984 ... I should have made myself clear me and Harry basically were born weeks apart ...


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Fly on the wall on May 07, 2015, 05:23:24 pm
i think its Harry's personalty that makes him good looking he seems funny ,charming and  him being in uniform is a + for a lot of people  can you imgine if he had a the charm like William.

It might be because he was born September 15th and I was born October 1st but I do find him attractive he is not "pretty" but that is what makes him attractive he is very mainly if you ask me ... now ... it's his drinking problem and how he is behind close doors that is the issue with him whenever he gets dumped the girl in question latter looks like she escaped prison ...


You're Oct 1st . I'm the 9th.  woot woot


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: AnaBolena on May 07, 2015, 06:07:41 pm
^^ Maybe one of you girls would qualify as 'wife material' and go give Waity a kick for the rest of us.  I'm way off in years (76) but same sign under astrology.  Oh my, the big 4-0 before long lol


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Alexandrine on May 07, 2015, 09:53:04 pm
I don't find Harry hot either. I did like one nanosecond years ago but there is something smarmy about his lifestyle that doesn't do it for me.

IMO his attraction can be explained by the bad boy troupe. He is the naughty one of the brothers (I know some will disagree with this but at least this is his main media persona) and it also makes women want to "reform" him.

BTW sexual attraction in astrology I believe that it is explained by the positions of venus and mars not exactly the sun.



Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Ariel on May 07, 2015, 09:55:46 pm
God bless yAnaB. 76 and so active inline - many grandmas would like to be like you.

Yes, magnetic people are very interesting. Don Cirleone was powerful leader too. It's what you do with it that makes a difference. So far Harry has done only giid with hus charms. And imo deserves a lovig woman.

As for eligibility - I am close to his age but I'm from a country which english people strongly prefer to not  move to UK.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: YooperModerator on May 07, 2015, 11:01:51 pm
^I think she meant she was born in 1976 but could be wrong!


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Akasha 85 on May 07, 2015, 11:12:41 pm
 :laugh:  You're right hun, she had a baby about 4 Years ago (gosh time flies) I remember chatting with her about her preg issues. lol
If i'm not mistaken ana is about 10y older then me and I'm 29 so...


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Alexandrine on May 07, 2015, 11:24:41 pm
 :laugh:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: AnaBolena on May 08, 2015, 12:16:45 am
Aye, you up there Ariel lol  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :tehe:

Born in 76 - not 76 years old lol lol  :P :laugh: :shy: :bouncy:

Goodness my coffee nearly was wasted again!  bignono  :tehe:

Actually, I have a Twitter acct not under my real name (I use my middle name for my real acct), but this other acct I'm actually 94 years old on and can get away with saying a great deal due to my advanced years.  :sly: :tehe:.

Best laugh in a long time, Ariel!  :flower: :thankyou:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Ariel on May 08, 2015, 12:55:22 am
 :AWW: glad I made your day.


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: camilapitanga on May 08, 2015, 01:48:05 am
I know many had said they considere him pretty coz of his perosnality and i agree.His personlaity plays a big part on it but i think hes gorgeous.My view.Way prettier than bad pitt is or ever was anyway  :laugh:

There something about him that makes him extremelly hot...i think anyway  :tehe:
Some say is the red hair i say the red cheeks  :flirt:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Jane23 on May 08, 2015, 08:37:46 am
Physically speaking he is attractive ... tall , great body , beautiful smile , great eyes and so on ... I can see him have a lot of girls chasing him even if he wasn't a Prince ... it is also true girls love a "bad boy" so ... it's his persona , his real persona behind close doors that is the issue with him ...


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Joanna on May 08, 2015, 05:10:22 pm
I empathize with him not because of his looks but because of what little I can perceive about his personality, there's a magnetism that draws me in. I can terribly relate to his demons, we have some of them in common. It's totally not a good thing but I can feel empathy towards him, I can give him slack because I think that the media decided to presentus with the tale of two brothers "the good one" and the "bad one" and I feel like the "good one" is a farce. Harry comes across as genuine and caring, whereas William   :ick: :bat: :-X


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Akasha 85 on May 11, 2015, 12:13:30 am
^I agree totally  :thumbsup:
I wonder who they are going to cast in the "bad role" in the next generation?
I mean first there was Andy (the "old spare"), now Harry (this generations "spare") will they go for Charlotte in 15y because she's "the new spare" or will it be George in the "naughty role" because his little sis is diana's grandaughter?  8)
Unless the camb's  have another kid this is going to be a tricky choice for the press. :dontknow:
I mean Zara, Peter, Bea and Eugenie are going to fade into the background presswise and ppl hardly know the two wessex kid's, James and Louise, Harry will settle down eventually... so who are they gonna dish in 10 to 15 year's?
Maybe Harry's kid's will be cast in the same type roles as the York girls but that won't fill many papers.
The press need's a wild kid and a good kid in the RF to add some spice. :June:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Joanna on May 18, 2015, 03:25:07 pm
^  :worship: I feel humbled that you agree with me  :thankyou:
True, the press will have trouble choosing one of the kids to be the "bad one". Eventually that role will come to Harry's kids (if he has them). Some psychology studies have shown that usually the children of two/three/four brothers (and so on), tend to assume in the family the same roles that their parents had. :- :dontknow: Come to think about it, Speaking from experience that totally applies to my family, being the daughter of the  second son, the "wild" kid, I'm the "wild" 25 years old kid.  lol

If Harry never has children (which seems unlikely to me) then I bet Charlotte will be the "saint" because for the press she will be "Diana II"   8) and the monarchy needs some spice (like they don't make RF like they used to, where are the juicy stories/the scandal/the drama?), with all the "middle-class" thingy they are getting too much alike our next door neighbours, no magic in that.   :sly:
If not for Harry I know I'd be bored to tears. He has his mother's charm, IMO that's a huge gift to the BRF, if only we'd have King Henry IX :sob:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: One of the Peasants on May 18, 2015, 08:53:30 pm
Harry clearly got the better choice of genetics, however, I am still not convinced he has confronted some of the demons that plague him.  Is he still drinking?  It appears not, however, celebrities are good at hiding things and he has a lot of people who can help him.  As much as it pains me, I still think there is a red detonator button for him to still sit on.  I hope I am wrong.  However, he seems either incapable or unwilling to swim in other waters to see what truly decent girls are out there.  He is a dude with a title, free rent and a lot of money on his hands.   :bye: :bye: :sob: :sob:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: AnaBolena on May 27, 2015, 09:02:52 am
OK I'm going to have to accept that Harry's looks do nothing for me - but I like his personality when he's out doing his work.  I think he has a power than is more King material than Willy boy could ever dream up in his wildest of nights.  William is totally an ick to me  :ick:, but Harry at least has personality.

I hope he expands his horizons in every way, and not just in the female department as like you OOTP I feel he's got a lot of unresolved issues.

Part of me thinks it must be pretty horrid being born as a spare.  I mean, it's a horrid thing to call a second child.  Just my opinion and I know it's just a metaphor, but still.  :dontknow:

IMO Harry should have been born first. :thumbsup:  Willy boy is a washout and the biggest disappointment ever.  :thumbsdown:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: YooperModerator on May 27, 2015, 01:00:06 pm
^That's why voting for leaders is a good idea.   :cookie:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: AnaBolena on May 27, 2015, 02:13:47 pm
^ 100% Agree  :thumbsup:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Ariel on May 27, 2015, 09:57:19 pm
i partially agree here. some people are born in a rich family, with title or in a loving family
it's just fate. imo Harry is the firt spare in a long time ho finds their place in life.
William is just unfit to be king but imo this is because how he was raised. or in other words how he was not parented into duty, obeying, responsibility, work ethic


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: livylivy on October 08, 2015, 10:31:59 pm
honestly  i find him quite atractive, even if he s balding : he' s tall, nice body, beautiful face :loveshower: but i love ginger guys so i may be biassed.
besides his physique :loveshower: he' s got charisma and it seems that he puts his heart in his work ( i m talking about charity)


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Akasha 85 on November 10, 2015, 02:14:42 am
They say a picture equals a 1000 word's so
http://cdn.sheknows.com/articles/2014/09/prince-harry-birthday-04.jpg the pic that started it for me

http://www.bbcamerica.com/anglophenia/files/2014/09/Prince-Harry-2004-.jpg that loving warm look

http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/01858/harry_1858293c.jpg the pose

http://www.ooyuz.com/images/2015/8/2/1441251031980.jpg this grin

http://40.media.tumblr.com/6751e024472f351a26d4c96722bface1/tumblr_muhhfn5wAh1rmbz5io1_500.jpg those eye's

I don't know how but he just...connect's to me every time I see him.  :flirt:

Harry oozes realness in pictures and film compared to William who seem's to much 'engarde' most of the time with camera's around . 
William just lack's that spontaneous connection, he seems too forced, too acted, too uncomfortable and nervous.

http://i2.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article3384178.ece/ALTERNATES/s615b/Prince-William-Prince-George-and-Kate-Middleton-arrive-at-Wellington-Airport.jpg look at his hand subconsciously his giving us the finger!!

https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRO4Me0rmu3eVUK_WJzeuMPkH91QV9I-qpFWKbHuH18rw8X_paVpw shifty looks

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/e/ec/Prince_William_February_2015.jpg flashing his teeth rather then a smile

Maybe William is just a shyer personality or his scar's run deeper then Harry's. he seem's afraid and angry at the same time when the camera's are around and it shows.




Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: leogirl on November 14, 2015, 08:07:03 am
PW needs some counseling. It is not healthy to be angry at the press because he's the future king and they're always going to be in his life. And it's not fair to stereotype all photographers over what a small handful of them did in Paris 18 years ago.

I think Harry has learned to let go of what happened. He is able to work with people, smile, act naturally, and make friends. Good for him. :thumbsup:


Title: Re: Ladies Please Explain: Harry
Post by: Ariel on November 14, 2015, 09:40:16 am
let's stop with the excuses for William. he's no longer a 10yrs old boy. he's a man. he needs to take responsibility and get some professional help.